Tag: emotionally unavailable parents
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“Nothing Was Wrong, But Something Was Missing”: Emotional Neglect in South Asian Families

“Many adults who experienced emotional neglect in South Asian families struggle to explain why they feel this way.” “My parents did everything for me… so why do I feel this way?” This is one of the most confusing experiences to explain. You weren’t abused. You were cared for in many ways. Your parents may have:…
Krishna Vora
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The “Good Child” Trauma Response: When Being Easy Meant Losing Yourself

“I was the easy one” You didn’t cause problems. You didn’t ask for much. You figured things out on your own. And people appreciated that about you. You were called: But what often gets missed is this: You didn’t become that way for no reason. When being “good” becomes a role, not a choice For…
Krishna Vora
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